Tips: What Should You Do For Your First Anal Sex

The latest research from Kinsey Research Institute shows that more and more women choose to try the anal sex - more than 45%. However, how much do you know about the anal sex. If you wanna try the anal sex for the first time, what should you do? At this time, you need to prepare many things with your sex partners. Today, it is my hour to invite an expert, named Rachel knight, Psy. D., a licensed psychologist and certified sex therapist, Tristan tormino, author of the ultimate guide to anal sex for women.

Today, i would like to introduce to you some suggestions when you need try the anal sex for the first time. Hope it useful

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1. Just Relax 

To be honest, many of you would be nervous when you try the anal sex for the first time. On the condition that you are nervous, it is not strange. But if you are intense all the time, so you do not dare to try, then what is the point of everything? Therefore, you need take sometime to relax, including you body and mind, tell your sex partner to wait and help you. If you cannot relax the butt muscle, see the partner's help and let him give you a massage so that you can get a totally relax. If still nervous, please do not worry, i wanna introduce to you some relaxing sex toys. Like massage prostate medical, mens prostate massager, prostate anatomy, best p spot stimulator, vibrating knickers, etc. using these massage toy first to fit and relax. You would have a more comfortable feeling when you have anal sex with your partner

2. Communicate Openly

"Have a good talk before anal sex begins". Among all the sex activities, anal sex must be talked beforehand so that you can have a psychological preparation. Tell your partner that you are afraid and nervous, which can help you become more relaxing. And plus, you need make sure talk with him about your experience, like speed, frequency, force, depth, etc. Believe me, this is one place where you do not expect a surprise packet. Several days ago, i collected some information, here, i should tell you that it is your job to care for the feeling and tell your boyfriend what it is. In the process of anal sex, if you feel painful, please tell your sex partner to reduce the force or you can have a rest. There is nothing to blame for.

3. Clyster

Many women's fear of anal sex come from a awkwardness of what should i do if there are shit in the process of anal sex. Don't worry, you can use the sex accessories to clean your anal first. For instance, butt plug, Lube Anal Water Based Lubricants, Anal Clean Enema and other anal clean tools. They can help you solve all the fear of attacks from behind

4. Prepare for the Enough Foreplay

"Don't rush". Many of people is making a mistake- less foreplay. If you do not make enough foreplay, then it is easy for women to feel painful or discomfortable. So one of the best way to guarantee a comfortable anal sex is prepare for the enough foreplay. Then what should you do about the foreplay. For example, you can use the sex toys, like prostate probe, prostate masterbation, prostate stimulation finger, mini rabbit vibrator and any other sex toys which can make you fit the anal sex. "The more aroused you are, the more relax your sphincter muscle will be, and that's going to make for a hotter and easier experience," she says.

5. Use Enough lubrication

As we all know, unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant. The more lube you use, the more comfortable and enjoyable anal sex can be, explains Needle. At the same time, please remember to use the condom, water or silicone-based lubricant (oil-based lubricants aren't compatible with condoms). What's important is that don't be afraid to re-use frequently. Because enough lube equals better anal sex always.

6. Attend to the right position

There are main three optimal positions for the anal sex when you try firstly:

First: You on top. It allows you to control the speed and depth of penetration, which is extremely important, especially for backdoor newbies.

Second: Spooning. Another great pick for backdoor beginners, this position gives you shared control of your movements and adds an extra touch of intimacy, which may help you relax as well.

Third: Doggy-style. This position allows your partner easy entry but also puts them in full control, which might not be the best for your first time.
If you feel pain at any point, have your partner ease up, stop, or switch positions.



7. Take it slow

No matter how much lube you use, your backdoor is not a water slide. First-time anal sex should be approached like getting into a really hot bath tub. First you test the waters during foreplay, allowing your partner to gently rub around the opening with their finger, before experimenting with actually inserting anything. Whether you're using a penis, a finger, or a toy, start slowly with just the tip before inserting anything any deeper. The key here is to be gentle and communicate. If at any point things get too uncomfortable, speak up.

8. Breathe as You Will 

In the process of start penetration, the pressure tends to cause women to hold their breath. This results in the immediate tightening of those muscles, which will only lead to pain. Take deep, even breaths and focus on relaxing your entire body and release all tension. It may feel like you have to go to the bathroom at first, but just go with it.

9. Choose a Condom

Apart from the function of getting pregnant, there are also many other functions, for example, it can prevent sexually transmitted infections in a most degree. Just don't go from anal to vaginal penetration with the same condom as that can spread infections. Just remember, throw the used condom which has been put in anus and put on a new one before penetrating the vagina.

10. Vaginal Stimulation

As the report says, "There are a lot of shared nerve endings between the walls of the vagina and the anus, so stimulating the vagina simultaneously can be extremely pleasurable. If you feel comfortable, insert something, like silicone dildo, bunny vibrator, vibrating tongue ring and suction anal dildo into your vagina while you are engaging in anal sex.

11. Don't be Nervous

Some may ask what is the right time to make my first anal sex. However, experienced as it is, it is still hard to say. because it is no fix time, morning, afternoon or evening, anyone cannot say it is not right. For some, anal sex is discomfortable if not in the right time, for others, it is ok anywhere anytime, and we cannot say which side is right and wrong. Just follow your heart is ok

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