Have you ever thought your sex experience is so stale but you can do nothing. Or you are satisfied at your sex experience, at the same time, you just want to try something new, but you are headache about what you can do to change this embarrassing condition. For example, you have tried many more sex love positions in the bedroom, only to find they are so similar, at last, you end up in trying
On the flip side, you could be that couple who has a great sex life, but you just like to add a little spice to test your likes/dislikes and boundaries from time to time. And then there are those of you who want to have better solo sex- and that’s great too! Don't worry, in this post, i would like to tell you three tips for you. Hope it useful.
You may know that dirty talk is the easiest way to immediately improve your sex life. A man can even control his woman’s orgasms simply by knowing exactly what to say and do, leading her to have deeper, longer, more intense, even screaming and squirting orgasms!
Yes, it can feel scary for people who aren’t used to doing it, but it’s particularly important for men to do because it helps women to get out of their heads during sex. Because let’s face it, men are visual creatures- just seeing your girl’s naked body will turn you on and turn off your mind.
Women, on the other hand, are emotional creatures- we are often stuck in our heads (yes even during sex) as we think about the errands we forgot to run, if our body looks fat in that position, or what to eat for dinner. Here’s the thing about dirty talk though: it’s EASY!
You don’t have to come up with anything clever to say. Simply say what you’re doing, what you’re feeling, what your partner is feeling, and more than that- what you want your partner to be feeling. It will instantly change your sex life.
2. Sex Toys
More and more people have their own their sex toys to improve their sex life, no matter whether they are single, live alone or married, sex toys play an important role in improving their sex life. At the same time, too many sex toys on the market to choose from, so please remember to get the right one. For example: women sex toy, vibrating butt plug, vsp male masturbator powered pocket pussy masturbation cup, vibrating prostate stimulator, etc,. Therefore, in my opinion, there is no need any reasons to get a sex toy. Lestisn to my advice and get one.
In fact, at the most of time get three: one that you know you will like, one that is highly rated but you don’t exactly know how it will work, and one that is dancing the line of intriguing/intimidating.
What Is the Reasons of It?
Because sex toys intensify pleasure. They are also fun! Hence the word “toy.” They give you new opportunities to play, explore, and enjoy both yourself and your partner. They get you out of your normal routine and can transform your average pump and grind into a playground of fun or, as John Mayer said – “your body is a wonderland.”
So start exploring and playing with it! Sex toys can also help you both climax faster, harder, and deeper. And here’s the thing about sex toys: if you try one and it wasn’t right for you, you can never try it again if you don’t want to. Even those experience, when you as a couple try something new and share an explorative experience together, even if it’s a #fail it can being you closer and make you feel more connected.
Because shared new experiences are an essential ingredient to deepening and strengthening relationships- as long as you are both open to being open, vulnerable, and playful.
What's more, you just might feel more aroused than you could have even imagined.
Waht you want him to do, what your likes, hates, fantasies, what feels good, what you want them to do, what you are open to try, what you don’t like that much, your favorite position, where and how to move… tell your partner!
Of course, i’m not saying to lecture or give a speech. But talk with your partner. Have a fun back and forth conversation about sex. Don’t be insecure or nervous about it. If you’re old enough and mature enough to have sex, you should be old enough and mature enough to talk about sex too.
If he can’t get you to orgasm, help him! In the midst of it you can guide him a little, give him “I like it when…” direction or “I want you to f**k me like this…” Don’t be pushy. Don’t be insulting. But help guide.
Then post sex, when you’re totally emotionally open and still in the sex mind set, go a little deeper. This is when you talk about what you might like to try that’s different in that… if there is something that you really like that she does, but you’d like it even more if she did it like this… you’ve always wanted to try… This is also the time to ask them what they like, what they would like even more if you did something a little different/more/less, what they have always wanted to try.
Be careful not to put them down or criticize. And it’s best to not generalize. By asking focused questions and giving focused information, you will be able to make this conversation constructive and encouraging, even fun and exciting.